3.30.2016

Easter 2016

TETELESTAI
{It is finished...it was finished in the past...it is still finished in the present...
and it will remain finished in the future}

"It was my sin that held Him there until it was accomplished
His dying breath has brought me life 
I know that it is finished."

I don't know about you, but Easter just does me in. The emotions of what Mary and the others felt at seeing the empty tomb and garments left behind. Not knowing what happened to Jesus. The fear. The desperation. Then He appeared to Mary and all he had to do was whisper her name and she knew...HE WAS ALIVE. HE IS ALIVE. Forever. Hallelujah. Death could not defeat him. Hell could not keep him. Evil did not win. And because HE LIVES, we can face tomorrow. We have HOPE. We are FREE. We are ALIVE in Him. 

One of my favorite songs right now that we sang at church this weekend is called Death Was Arrested...

But then Jesus arose with our freedom in hand  
That's when death was arrested and my life began 
Oh your grace so free washes over me 
You have made me new now life begins in you.

I love the promise of FREEDOM. 
I'm free to struggle.  I'm free to repent and confess and come before my Father.  I'm free to stop trying so dang hard. I'm free to get unstuck.  I'm free to love others recklessly.  I'm free to live for eternity.  I'm free to enjoy the temporary.  Following Jesus allows me to be free in who He has made me to be and FREE to tust wholly in His work on my behalf.  How can that not do me in every single day of the year? 


It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery...You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.  For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Galatians 5:1, 13-14


Easter was a little different for us this year because we went to Church on Saturday night.  This is actually a new normal for us becuase Jeff is in charge of this service at our church.  It has been hard in some ways and really great in a lot of ways.   We go to a large church.  Saturday night offers a smaller community and a way to really belong.  Saturday night for Easter weekend though brought thousands of people out and it was an amazing service.  I'm so thankful for Perimeter Church and our amazing musicians and a wonderful Gospel message that connected with every age.  

Jeff had to work Sunday for all 3 services so I stayed home with the kids and we tried to have a laid back morning.  But anyone who has 4 little sinners as children will know that sometimes (ok maybe all the time) that is impossible.  In reality, there was a lot of arguing, yelling, whining, crying, and chaos.  That's just reality.  And most days I'm right there in the mix of the whining and raising my voice.  I'm reminded daily as I parent these 4 kiddos of what a sinner I am.  I am so thankful that Jesus died for those sins and that through His resurrection I am not bound by them.  I do not have to try and be better to win His approval. He loves me, and my kids, just as we are.  What a Savior. 

Also as a side note, if you go to a church where you have a young pastor and he has young kids...just give his wife a hug and congratulate her on making it to church each week by herself:).  Most days, she feels like she has run a marathon just to get herself and her kiddos there alone.  I now want to hug every pastor's wife I know and just tell them "now I understand all you do".  It can be a lonely place to not worship together and to be the one who has to do everything and get everyone to their appropriate spots on time on a Sunday morning (or Saturday night - ha).  I'm learning to leave WAY earlier than I ever thought I would have to and to TRY my best to breathe deeply and not let the stress get to me.  


Kids loved doing this. They had fun trying to make tie dyed eggs. 



So now as we move forward from this Holy season, let us not forget what all we celebrate as believers.  We are ALIVE.  We are FREE.  We have HOPE.   


3.06.2016

Clean Eating 101




Around 3 years ago, I was one year into parenting 4 children.  I felt horrible.  I hated it.  I could not get the baby weight off.  I had no energy.  I hated the way I looked.

I've talked about my story here before, but in case you missed it, I'll share a bit of it again.

It was the holiday season and I just took a risk to do something about how I looked and felt.  I had had enough.  I joined a challenge group with a Beachbody coach and committed to clean eating and exercising.   At first it was hard...I mean come on, it was Christmas time. I was supposed to be binge eating cookies and corn casseroles.  But I stuck to it, because if anything I'm pretty competitive and don't like to fail.  After 30 days I had lost a few lbs which I call a huge win because usually I gain about 5 lbs in December.  So the following January, I committed to a 90 day challenge group doing the same thing.  Clean Eating. Exercising 5-6 days a week.  After those 90 days, I really felt amazing. Over the next 10 months I became a better version of me.  It's not just about the weight and inches lost (although that part was huge), but about a total makeover of my physical, emotional, and even spiritual health.  Getting healthy with my eating and exercising really did propel me into being healthier emotionally and physically.  I honestly believe with all my heart that it's all connected! I felt better than I ever have in my life!  The journey did lead me to lose 27 lbs and 33 inches (which took me down two sizes). 


before and after about 9 months


So I maintained that weight loss and focus on my health until 2015.  This was the year I took Samuel out of school to homeschool him for a semester.  The year we also transitioned out of a job/career/ministry of 13 years and left a town we loved of 7 years.  SO, needless to say I neglected my health.  I stopped exercising and ate more junk.  I gained about 15 lbs.  Ugh.  So this January, I knew what I needed to do. I contacted my Beachbody coach and joined a group in February.  I already feel so much better! I have more energy.  I have more discipline and self control in all areas of my life.   I have lost 6 lbs in 3 weeks.  I am enjoying all kinds of yummy clean healthy food and don't feel guilty or deprived.  I am drinking yummy Shakeology and doing the most fun work out program called Cize! 



I highly recommend any of the Beachbody workout programs.
I love being able to work out from home! 
The ones I have enjoyed the most over the years have been Brazil Butt Lift, 21 Day Fix, Chalean Extreme, PIYO and CIZE. 

So I thought I would post some tips on clean eating becasue I truly see the most benefits when I change what I do in the kitchen!  I can workout until kingdom come, but if I don't make changes in what I eat, I don't see much of a change in my weight or mental health. 

For me the BIGGEST thing is to PLAN PLAN PLAN. 
It's easy to eat bad because we are busy. 
It's much easier to grab a package of chips, pretzels, granola bar, yogurt (filled with sugar), or cheese-its as we are feeding those to our kids often times. 

So, I TRY my best to prepare some healthy foods early in the week (usually Sunday or Monday) so that I can grab a quick snack or make a quick lunch for myself. 

The basics for me of clean eating is that I learned to eat 5 times a day. 
Eat breakfast, snack, lunch, snack, and dinner. 
Eating smaller amounts spread throughout the day helps prevent binge eating at the main meals and it actually helps speed up your metabolism (if you are eating healthy things) as it burns fuel for your body. 

FOOD PREP: 
Almost every week I cook up some chicken in the crock pot to have ready to put on salads, make BBQ sliders, quesadillas or lettuce wraps.  It makes preparing a quick lunch or dinner super easy! 
I throw in frozen or fresh organic chicken, drizzle with olive oil and sprinkle with pink himalayan salt, ground pepper, and sometimes garlic salt. 


I also chop up lots of veggies for salads and snacks. 
My favorites are cucumbers, orange, yellow, and/or red peppers.
I eat those with hummus or wholly guacomole 100 cal packs.
I also add those veggies to salads! 


My local Kroger also has this microwavable bacon that is nitrate free.  
It is very yummy on salads or in the morning. 
This Tesseme's dressing is all natural with just a few ingredients and has no sugar. 


 Every week, I make a batch of "boiled eggs"
Except I do them in the oven.
It's so much easier! 
Bake in muffin tins at 350 for about 20 minutes
Put into bowl of ice water to cool for 10 minutes
then peel those suckers and the shells come right off very easily


I use these for a quick breakfast, snack, or a salad topping
my kids love them too!



A salad with all my prepared food! 
Easy and YUMMY! 



Like I said above, I also use my chicken to make BBQ sliders.  My kids love these. 
I try to stay away from most breads, but these are mini whole wheat buns which is perfect size for my kids.  We eat this on nights Daddy is out or just when we need a quick dinner option.  I would serve sweet potatoes or broccoli with them.  



Some other things I do regularly to prepare is cook up a batch of ground beef.
Then I add some taco seasoning to some of it and leave some plain
The taco beef is something I leave for a quick and easy lunch.
Throw it in a lettuce wrap with some avocado and salsa and it's so yummy 
It's also great to throw in a tortilla for my kids

The plain ground beef I will use for spaghetti later in the week.
It just helps to have it made and ready to go. 
I also make my own spagetti sauce with tomato sauce, paste, petite diced tomatoes and seasoning to taste. 

A Few of My other favorite clean meals: 
(I use olive or coconut oil instead of canola)
(these are great to freeze and take out later for lunches, etc.  I serve with whole wheat noodles for family and for me I eat with spaghetti squash or zoodles) 
(I do not cook in my cast iron pan...can cook in normal pan and then transfer to baking dish...also if you do not have ghee, use olive or cococunt oil or just regular butter) 

Also, I love stir fry.  Just cook up some cut up chicken in sesame oil seasoned to your taste (I usually do ginger, garlic, lime, and sea salt).  Add in veggies (Broccoli, asparagus, green onion, cauliflour, snap peas, onion, carrots, etc) and season with cocounut aminos (or healthy soy sauce) and rice vinegar. Serve over rice for kids.  I usually eat mine plain. 

So I do not eat much sugar (if any at all) when I'm strictly eating clean. 
For me I also limit dairy and bread. 
If I do that, I see difference right away in mental clarity, emotional well being, bloatedness and eventually weight loss! 

SNACKS
apple with natural peanut butter 
plain yogurt (and I usually do whole fat...low fat is loaded with added sugar believe it or not) drizzled with honey and add berries
almonds, cashews, macadmia nuts (limit to about a handful)
avocado
carrots and hummus
carrot chips and guacomole 
peppers and hummus
peppers and guacomole 
smoothie or shakeology (make with almond milk and fruits) 
unsweetened banana chips (i can only find these at whole foods) with natural peanut butter 


BREAKFAST 
I pretty much eat the same thing for breakfast. 
Eggs and nitrate free sausage or bacon
SOMETIMES I eat a bowl of oatmeal with a little bit of cinnamon and brown sugar
Or I have a smoothie/shakology

I just like to have protien for breakfast as I feel is starts my day off right! 
I have gotten to where I drink green tea instead of much coffee in the mornings (I just like to add too much junk to my coffee) 

DRINKS
Water water and more water
Drink half of your weight in ounces
I haven't bought soda's in more than 3 years
I still have one every once in awhile (i'm not perfect people), but for the most part, I have cut them out
If I want something else besides water, I have caffeine free unsweet tea
You can also infuse your water with lemons, limes, grapefruit, etc. 
Limit alchohol. I know, not fun...but you really do have to do this. 
Maybe some red wine periodocially.  I don't drink a ton anyway, so this wasn't too hard for me. 


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If you made it through this, congratulations! 
I know it was long!
 Hopefully this will help you get started on your clean eating journey!
Also, I am not perfect in this! I try to stick to it as much as possible. 
But on the weekends, I generally allow myself a few favorites...whether its some chips and salsa, a glass of wine, or even a small desssert. 
This journey is about making better choices, and learning to have a better relationship with food. 
You will fail.  But you will also learn how to pick back up and not let those failures defeat you. 
If you have any questions, leave me a comment, and I will try to answer them the best I know how! 


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One more thing:
Our winners from my giveaway were announced on Instagram so head over there to see! 














3.04.2016

Friday Favorites




FriYAY
A combination of Friday and YAY! 
typically to indicate excitement about said Friday
{urban dictionary}

So yeah, we love Fridays around here!  No homework.  Daddy's day off (Pastor life).  No after school activities.  It's awesome!  When the kids were little, Fridays were just another day.  Now they are a thing.  A truly awesome day! 

Linking up with Momfessionals for some Friday favorites today... 


Ok, have you seen the new Pillowfort collection at Target? 

Y'all the first time I saw it, I had resolve. I bypassed it and kept going.  Then I saw an ad on FB.  How do they know?  I mean how do they freakin KNOW it took everything in me to not buy up the whole collection just a few days before.  So I was weak, and clicked on the link.  Low and behold, Target was running a sale.  I had just gotten my Rodan + Fields paycheck so I went for it.  Ever since the big girls began sharing a room again, I had been looking for cute bedding.  This collection reminds me of Land of Nod but for a fraction of the price!  


And it matched their walls perfectly.  I got two quilts, the cute little industrial lamp and two shams for a little over $100.  I have since sold half of their original bedding and am working on selling the other so I should make my money back...or at least most of it. Thankfully their curtains and sheets and other decor matched this bedding! 


I mean, how cute is it? I'm a little obsessed! 


I also couldn't resist this cute pillow cover for Samuel's bed...thankfully I already had an insert:). 




Do you have Amazon Prime? 
I have had it for many years but didn't realize until recently that there is Amazon Prime music.
You can download an app and have access to so much awesome music and stream 
on your phone with no ads!  
It's awesome! 
Recently Ive been listening to a lot of Bethel and Hillsong.  I may not always agree with their church's theology, but man they put out some good music. 
I usually always have one of them playing while getting ready in the mornings. 

morning essentials...Rodan + fields skin care, favorite perfumes (At Last by Lollia and Amazing Grace by Philosophy), fav jewelry, makeup and Hillsong:).


Who is ready for SPRING? 

This southern girl is!  We have had a few teases of warmer weather and I'm getting so excited! 

I recently helped shoot some Pottery Barn spring decor for a fashion/lifestly blogger friend and it really put me in the mood to decorate for spring.  I won't steal her thunder and post many of the pics, but this succulent and runner are fabulous! 


The Target dollar section had some super cute spring/easter decor. 
I grabbed up this cute green "moss" bunny for $3 and added him to my dough bowl with speckled eggs, gray moss, and a birds nest.  Makes me happy! Come on Spring! 




Go read more about other Friday Favorites as Momfessionals!  It's a fun feed to read through! 




3.02.2016

Back in the Saddle + A Giveaway!

Well, I've tried this a few times before over the past few months, but I'm going for it again.

I'm committed to reviving this space (it may not be super frequent, but hopefully I will get in a regular rhythm).

I miss writing here.

I miss connecting with others here.


I also want to have a space to connect all the things I love....my family, my 2 businesses (highlighted on the sidebar to the right), my faith, and my crafty side.

I feel like I'm coming out of the fog of moving and transitioning and am ready to thrive. I'm ready to share some of the things that have happened as we've moved our family and ministry from Alabama to Georgia.

I've just begun to eat clean again and I have some things I want to share about that. Tips, pictures on what/how to prepare, etc.

I have these two amazing businesses I want to talk more about.  I'm so thankful for the Lord and how he has provided in small ways through me taking steps of faith and putting myself out there.

I have these 4 amazing kids I want to talk more about.  One is a teenageer who has an amazing story to tell. I want to tell it on more than just Facebook and instagram.

So, if you want to stay connected with me through this blog, you can click on SUBSRIBE on the tab bar under the title.

And since I'm reviving Moments with My Miracles I want to do a FUN giveaway.  It's a little self promoting, but hey it's what I have access to:).  Since starting my Rodan + Fields business a few months ago, I have seriously fallen in love with these products.  Seriously, my skin has never looked better and I LOVE this business and what an amazing opportunity I have been given!  If you are least bit curious about our products or the business (you can make some serious money right now with some great incentives we have going on when you start your business) leave me a comment or send me an email! I'd love to chat about it with you!

*****Ok onto the FUN stuff!***** 


Up for grabs is a FREE Rodan + Fields Self Tanner!!!!  This product has been featured a ton in beauty magazines! Spring is just around the corner.  Who wants to put on shorts or a sleeveless top for the first time and have pasty white skin?  I know I don't!!! This self tanner is awesome!  You can face the spring months with confidence!







Next up is this beautiful 8 x 10 print of a verse from one of my favorite hymns!  
It is printed on white linen cardstock with black calligraphy font and a blue/gray watercolor mark behind the verse.  It is ready to frame and dislpay in your home or office! 
I love the reminder in these ancient words....I want my heart each day to be tuned to the ryhthms of His Grace in my life. 



SO TO ENTER THIS GIVEAWAY: 

1.  Follow or subsribe to this blog if you haven't already 
2. Leave a comment when you've done that...with your name, your favorite song, and the skin issue you wish you could address (don't worry I won't solicit your business but just would be interested to know) 


I WILL DRAW FOR THE WINNERS IN 3 DAYS ON MARCH 5TH! 


For additional entries, you can also visit my instagram page (link on right tab of blog) to enter!